About Me

Hello and welcome. I’m Carol Millar, a NARM-trained developmental trauma therapist and experienced COMENSA life coach based in Cape Town, South Africa. I support people using a compassionate, relational approach to navigate developmental trauma and the impact it can have on

  • life transitions – failure to launch, careers
  • Addiction
  • Parenting
  • Understanding and living with Neurodiversity

Professional Background

My background in education, counselling and special-needs teaching—particularly my work with children and teenagers—deepened my understanding of how gaps in a person’s environment can affect development and shape the adaptive strategies they use to cope.

I believe in the inherent capacity for healing and growth within every individual. My role is to facilitate this process by providing a safe space, empathetic support, and to cultivate a sense of curiosity. I am committed to walking alongside you as you explore your inner world and work towards a more fulfilling life.

NARM daily supports my reconnection with myself / my aliveness and allows me to engage more fully in my passion for people, travel, nature and movement through yoga and hiking.

Focus areas and experience with:

Career Coaching

  • Supporting young adults in finding meaning / purpose / direction – and those struggling to launch
  • Supporting adults with reinventing themselves – change in direction (mid-life)
  • Supporting adults transition into the legacy / wisdom phase of life (latter years)

 

Parent coaching

  • Supporting parents through the adolescent / teenage years
  • Supporting parents in understanding their relationship with themselves and what it means to be a ‘good enough mother / father’
  • Supporting parents during the empty nest chapter of their lives.

 

Addiction

  • Supporting adults with Substance use disorder (Alcohol / Drugs),Co – dependency Disordered eating.
  • Supporting family members to navigate their mental health and wellbeing while supporting their person struggling with addiction

 

Neurodivergence

  • Supporting teens and adults with ADHD / Autism and other learning difficulties to navigate a neurotypical world with a neurodiverse lens.

Ask Me Anything, Anytime.

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